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Is My Child Adjusting Well to Preschool?

05-Jun-2025

5 Subtle Signs to Watch (That Matter More Than You Think)

Your child has been attending preschool for a week or two.
They’re not crying at drop-off anymore, but something still feels... off.

“They don’t talk much — are they shy or struggling?”
“They go in quietly… but are they really okay inside?”
“The teacher says all’s good, but I’m not so sure.”

The truth is, adjustment doesn’t always show on the surface.
Let’s explore 5 behavioral clues — through eating, sleeping, emotions, and routines —
to help you understand whether your child is truly adapting, or may need a little extra support.


Sign 1: Changes in appetite or eating patterns

Normal adjustment looks like:
– Steady appetite at home and school
– Willing to try school meals or snacks
– Occasional hunger after school (from active play)

Signs of stress may include:
– Refusing meals, sudden pickiness
– Big difference between school-day vs weekend appetite
– Complaints of tummy aches or “not hungry” on school mornings

Food avoidance can be a quiet signal of emotional overwhelm.


Sign 2: Irregular sleep or new sleep behaviors

Normal signs:
– Slightly more tired after school
– Quicker bedtimes or short naps
– Temporary early waking

Watch out for:
– Night terrors, sleep talking, frequent waking
– Struggling to wake up or resisting bedtime
– Excessive sleeping on weekends

Sleep disruption often reflects anxiety or overstimulation.


Sign 3: Emotional outbursts or withdrawal

Healthy signs:
– Slight crankiness after school (normal fatigue)
– Can express likes/dislikes calmly
– Occasional clinginess in the morning

Emotional red flags:
– Overreacting to small issues
– Sudden silence or frequent tantrums at home
– Regression (e.g. thumb sucking, clingy behavior)

Some children “hold it together” all day and release delayed stress at home
this is common and valid.


Sign 4: Regression in daily routines / resistance toward school items

Adjusting well:
– Willing to wear uniform, carry their bag
– Participates in getting ready (with help)

Signs of strain:
– Refuses to wear uniform or touch the school bag
– Suddenly “forgets” how to put on shoes
– Potty training setbacks or bathroom accidents

Reverting to earlier behaviors is often a coping response to transition stress.


Sign 5: Avoiding school talk or play

Healthy signs:
– Talks about school (“We made playdough!”)
– Expresses dislike but can explain (“It was noisy today”)
– Role-plays “school” with toys

Watch for:
– “I don’t remember” or “Nothing happened” — every day
– Avoids pretend play involving school/teachers
– Won’t say teacher’s name or bring home activities

Lack of sharing doesn’t always mean “quiet personality” —
it can be emotional shutdown.


What You Can Do as a Parent

1. Don’t force conversation
Try: “Was anything fun, funny, or surprising today?”

2. Show acceptance
Say: “It’s okay if you don’t want to talk. I’m here when you’re ready.”

3. Ask teachers open-ended questions
Instead of “Was my child good?”, try:
– “Do they join group activities?”
– “Are they showing more comfort this week?”

4. Consider environment adjustments
If signs persist for 2–4 weeks:
– Explore shorter hours
– Ask about smaller class options
– Reassess timing of enrollment


 Adjustment ≠ Perfection

The key question isn’t “Are they acting normal?”
It’s: “Is this behavior a step forward, or a stress response?”

Real adaptation sounds like:

“This is still hard, but I’m starting to feel safe.”
“I might not love it yet — but I know you’re supporting me.”

You don’t have to rush their journey.
You just have to walk beside them with patience and clarity.

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